A good/appropriate read for a "surprised" father...?

Wow, you are a better person than I. I feel the same way about my brother in law and I wouldn't give that loser a second thought. Especially to give him any gift let alone one that will make him a better person. I'm sorry I don't have any books in mind to tell you about I just wanted to say that I think you are a thoughtful person and that's great that you can put your personal feelings aside to give the man a gift.